Ok, I give up, here are the cites (pun intended).
The U.S. Military 'lessons learned' web site I refered too is
http://redwood.do.langley.af.mil/
The Nuclear Regulatory Commission reports I refered too is
http://www.nrc.gov/NRC/GENACT/GC/gcabout.html
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