Help with quagga BGP config for ipv6 route-server

I am trying to set up BGP peering with a route-server, concurrently dual-stack. BGP 4 over an IPv4 connection works fine. A separate BGP 6 over IPv6 fails: with an "[Error] No common capability".

I am using quagga 0.99.20 on ubuntu 10.04.03. I don't know what the route-server is.
I have tried to tell both quagga to not be strict about capabilities or not negotiate them at all.

My quagga config includes:
router bgp XX
no bgp enforce-first-as
no bgp default ipv4-unicast !! tried with and without this

bgp router-id XX
network XY/24 route-map SetAttr

neighbor XX4 remote-as XX
neighbor XX4 activate
neighbor XX4 next-hop-self
neighbor XX4 send-community

address-family ipv6
network XY6/48 route-map SetAttr
neighbor XX6 remote-as XX
neighbor XX6 activate
neighbor XX6 next-hop-self
neighbor XX6 send-community
neighbor XX6 soft-reconfiguration inbound

The code, I think, that's triggering the error is:
/* Check there is no common capability send Unsupported Capability
    error. */
if (*capability && ! CHECK_FLAG (peer->flags, PEER_FLAG_OVERRIDE_CAPABILITY))
   {
     if (! peer->afc_nego[AFI_IP][SAFI_UNICAST]
         && ! peer->afc_nego[AFI_IP][SAFI_MULTICAST]
         && ! peer->afc_nego[AFI_IP][SAFI_MPLS_VPN]
         && ! peer->afc_nego[AFI_IP6][SAFI_UNICAST]
         && ! peer->afc_nego[AFI_IP6][SAFI_MULTICAST])

From tcpdump, my side's open message includes:
  Open Message (1), length: 57
    Version 4, my AS XX, Holdtime 180s, ID XX4 !! XX4 is my V4 address
    Optional parameters, length: 28
      Option Capabilities Advertisement (2), length: 6
        Multiprotocol Extensions (1), length: 4
    AFI IPv4 (1), SAFI Unicast (1)
    0x0000: 0001 0001
      Option Capabilities Advertisement (2), length: 2
        Route Refresh (Cisco) (128), length: 0
      Option Capabilities Advertisement (2), length: 2
        Route Refresh (2), length: 0
      Option Capabilities Advertisement (2), length: 6
        32-Bit AS Number (65), length: 4
    no decoder for Capability 65
    0x0000: 0000 e0c5
      Option Capabilities Advertisement (2), length: 2
        Unknown (66), length: 0
    no decoder for Capability 66

The route-server's response is:
  Open Message (1), length: 45
    Version 4, my AS XX, Holdtime 240s, ID XY4 !! XY4 is his V4 address
    Optional parameters, length: 16
      Option Capabilities Advertisement (2), length: 14
        Multiprotocol Extensions (1), length: 4
    AFI IPv6 (2), SAFI Unicast (1)
    0x0000: 0002 0001

To which I respond:
  Notification Message (3), length: 27, OPEN Message Error (2), subcode Capability Message Error (7)

When I add "dont-capability-negotiate" to the config, I send:
  Open Message (1), length: 29
          Version 4, my AS 57541, Holdtime 180s, ID XX4
    Optional parameters, length: 0

I get back:
  Open Message (1), length: 45
    Version 4, my AS XX, Holdtime 240s, ID XY4
    Optional parameters, length: 16
      Option Capabilities Advertisement (2), length: 14
        Multiprotocol Extensions (1), length: 4
    AFI IPv6 (2), SAFI Unicast (1)
    0x0000: 0002 0001

I respond:
  Notification Message (3), length: 27, OPEN Message Error (2), subcode Capability Message Error (7)

I'm a developer and former rfc writer, not a network operator.

thanks nanog,

My IPv4 and IPv6 BGP connections now get prefixes.
My thanks to those who answered on and off the list.

My revised config is like: